tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post3064482366777504640..comments2023-11-02T11:57:59.927-04:00Comments on Straight Guise: Gay for Pay: Straight men having sex for moneyDr. Joe Korthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08656437986661601760noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-54664760286571822032012-03-25T17:55:58.582-04:002012-03-25T17:55:58.582-04:00If a heterosexual man allows a gay man to perform ...If a heterosexual man allows a gay man to perform <br />fellatio on him and as long as the heterosexual man <br />does not reciprocate he does not have <br />bisexual tendencies as long as he is not <br />physically handicapped.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-43386639008697900252011-12-03T20:34:21.008-05:002011-12-03T20:34:21.008-05:00@ Monika, @ Anonymous...
Monika said, "...pa...@ Monika, @ Anonymous...<br /><br />Monika said, "...particularly those who don't operate from a feminist or pro-feminist model." One would fervently hope nobody was operating from a feminist or pro-feminist model. That model has been an abject failure for society over the past 50 years -- just look at the unraised children, emotionally disturbed children, poor educational system, etc., which can be laid at root levels to the selfish, self-centered, biology-denying, me-me-me feminist movement.Cluedinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-33073303520054395612008-11-28T02:11:00.000-05:002008-11-28T02:11:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-85412045639997957372008-08-29T00:59:00.000-04:002008-08-29T00:59:00.000-04:00@ Monika:What an incredibly selfish post. Women ar...@ Monika:<BR/><BR/>What an incredibly selfish post. Women are ALWAYS expressing their needs, and men are constantly trying to cater to us, no matter how much we bitch & complain. I can <I>easily</I> see why a guy would want to be with another guy; many women in this day & age have a "me me me!" attitude (you're a perfect example). Women want their lesbian experimentation to be accepted & tolerated, but when guys want to have some fun with each other, they are shamed for it. Men don't have the privileges we do. They can't run around singing songs about "kissing a guy" or even hug each other for too long without some loser cracking a gay joke.<BR/><BR/>Regarding this story, I think this guy's wife is a TOTAL dummy. She's the one who needs help! My god, if I had a husband and he told me he had these kinds of secret urges and had been doing things with other guys, not only would I NOT be mad about it, but I'd be incredibly turned on! I have fantasies about that type of thing, all the time. I just wish guys would stop caring what other people think and be more open about their desires. For instance, some people might think I'm a "sleazy slut" just for admitting that I'm excited by guy-on-guy sex... but guess what? I don't care. I love the way I am & I love my sexual fantasies. I mean, who gives a damn about mainstream acceptance? Not me! Anyone who <I>does</I> is going to lead a very unhappy life; I can guarantee that.<BR/><BR/>Also, I thought it was really sad that all of the women that Roger had received oral sex from felt like it was a chore, as opposed to actually <I>enjoying</I> the act of giving him pleasure. Truly pathetic. I'm ashamed of & disgusted by my fellow females. In all honesty, there are few things I enjoy more than giving head. When I meet a guy I'm attracted to, that is the <I>first</I> thing I think about doing, so I'm just amazed by the lack of enthusiasm generating from these women. I think they just need to admit that they are closet lesbians, and move out of the way so the <I>real</I> straight girls can take care of business. ; )<BR/><BR/>And to the guys out there that may be in need of some nice male bonding... go for it. You can even use <I>my</I> bed! LOL Seriously.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-81223261973910528242007-08-05T12:53:00.000-04:002007-08-05T12:53:00.000-04:00I am hopeful that, in couples counselling, Roger's...I am hopeful that, in couples counselling, Roger's partner also had an opportunity to express her needs, and have her needs met.<BR/><BR/>I hope she did not feel forced to meet Roger's sexual needs at the expense of her own because of fear that he would cheat on her again.<BR/><BR/>While Roger certainly was oppressed through patriarchy, so was his partner, and I would be curious as to the gender dynamics in the home.<BR/><BR/>Does Roger give his partner the same attention as he himself wants, in ways that she wants?<BR/><BR/>In sum, I hope that Roger's needs and healing weren't given precedence over his partner's, as can be the case in some therapeutic settings, particularly those who don't operate from a feminist or pro-feminist model.Monikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12173874298223506765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-90119491374610547242007-08-04T13:51:00.000-04:002007-08-04T13:51:00.000-04:00Only Roger knows if he is gay. The gym is full of ...Only Roger knows if he is gay. The gym is full of men who are addicted to working out. And there is competition with other men for muscles etc. <BR/>In many parts of the world men do show far more affection with each other than we do here.They kiss each other , hold hands, hug and will sleep with each other, and yes even blow each other. However the line is drawn with anal intercourse. <BR/>Emotionally Roger is probably straight. He simply enjoys the admiration and physical association of other men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8375344096409031979.post-43695682008045805442007-08-03T17:14:00.000-04:002007-08-03T17:14:00.000-04:00At first, I was going to respond that a man who ha...At first, I was going to respond that a man who has sex with other men cannot be straight. However, after seeing the "Gay for Pay" addition after clicking on the link, I changed my mind. "Gay for Pay" is very different from a guy who has sex with other guys for free. Or so I thought. "Roger" was lusting after adoration, not lusting after the men who worshipped him. I think a dividing line would have to be whether or not man is attracted to another man, and if money for sex is not exchanged. Even so, sexuality is not as linear as even many gay men believe. However, it seems possible that a guy could still have the similar reasons as Roger, receive favors from other guys, but NOT take money. This would not mean he was gay, either. However, it seems that the money factor implies that everybody has their price. This raises another question: Can somebdy reciprocate (even swallow, rim, or engage in anal sex) and still be "Gay for Pay" straight. It would seem so, but what issues lurk beneath? I can also see how doing it for free once or twice is experimentation. Enjoying it (active or passive) for any extended period of time is certainly not "Gay for Pay," or experimentation. Very different dynamics. Additionally, there are bi/gay men who pay other guys for sex. The guys getting the money can be bi/gay or "Gay for Pay." What a colorful world. Know thyself! If you are have sex outside of your relationship (and if this is not agreed upon prior to doing it), it is cheating. Even if it is agreed upon, taking a look at possibly hidden reasons might not be such a bad idea. <BR/><BR/>Troy (MSW)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com