Why Does THAT Arouse me?
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All sexual fantasies are healthy. There are some that should never be acted on because they might be putting the person who has them or someone else at risk. I don’t believe there’s any pathology in our sexual fantasies or desires. Instead, I see them as a positive story about ourselves that’s trying to be told. Learning what the nonsexual meanings of our fantasies are can be very helpful.
For example, you might have a fantasy of being dominated and spanked. There’s nothing wrong with that fantasy and there’s nothing wrong with doing it. But what I would want to help someone do is explore why they have that fantasy. Not in a negative way but in a positive way. What does that mean about you?”
Kort learned the benefit of helping people explore the origins of their fantasies through years of work with men who are addicted to sex and from those who have been sexually abused. By "cracking the erotic code" and learning the narrative of what the sexual desires mean can help you feel better about your sexuality and learn more about yourself.
Come and join us
Wednesday, October 28 at 8:30PM EST and learn the hidden meanings behind what turns you on.
Fee: $15.00 Click here to register. After registering, you will receive the call-in number by email.
1 comment:
I found your blog to be quite interesting. It's hard to find a blog about sex that isn't more about titilation that discussion.
I know where my fantasies come from. I lived a life for many years where I little power so I like to be the one in control in my fantasies. What I find is strange is how many other women find it strange if I admit that in a sex discussion.
Odd.
Anyway, interesting blog.
Tirz
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