Saturday, September 15, 2007

Women Who Love To Watch Gay Male Porn!

I first learned of the phenomenon of women who love to watch gay male porn through couples who entered my office where the women were married to men who had sex with men. For these women it was arousing and erotic to watch two men having sex in porn and even watching her husband with another man.

At first I didn't understand this phenomenon until I put it into context of how straight men love to watch two women and even watch their wives have sex with other women. Then it made sense.

At Gay Affirmative Trainings for professional therapists and students of a class I teach at Wayne State University on gay and lesbian studies I would show film clips of various movies and television shows portraying gay and lesbian relationship and sexuality. The women in my class all knew of the shows and would reveal they enjoyed watching the two men having sex during the shows. One show in particular which was arousing for them was "Queer as Folk".

But the most shocking to me was learning that some lesbians enjoyed and were aroused by watching gay male porn too. At first I thought it was a joke. How could this be? Why would a group of women who are self-identified as lesbians--inherently meaning that they are sexually and romantically attracted to other women--be turned on by man-on-man porn?

In an article called, "Hot Man On Man Action (And the Lesbians Who Love Watching It), by Elizabeth F. Stewart in the magazine In the Family she wrote several reasons why lesbians enjoyed gay male porn. Though her survey is unscientific it should not be overlooked.

Here are some of the reasons Stewart cites that some lesbians enjoy gay porn. I would say these are the same reasons straight women like gay male porn as well:

    1. The lack of storyline with emotional content in gay male
      porn.
    2. It is a myth that all women--lesbian or
      straight--want a storyline and emotional
      content
      in porn.
    3. Lesbians dislike heterosexual porn. They feel the
      women-on-women sex scenes are made for heterosexual men (and they are!) for their titillation and it doesn't seem authentic between the two women. In fact to many it seems fake!
    4. In gay male porn the men cannot fake arousal and what the
      viewer sees is real.
    5. Gay male sex is "nastier," more "down and dirty," and "forbidden" one women interviewed was quoted as saying in the article.

Another reason I have found women enjoy gay male porn is the balance of power between the two men. In other words, in straight porn, the male is dominant and the woman is submissive simply there to arouse the man. And as found in the survey, the women's arousal seems fake.

However in gay male porn both men enjoy the sexual interaction and the power exchange is balanced and equalized.

Yet another reason is cited in the article by therapist Marny Hall reports in the article is that lesbians "have sexual fantasies that involve penises". She states that

"lesbians report high levels of childhood sexual abuse. Identification with the
abuser (predominantly men) achieved by means of porn-enhanced, non-threatening
fantasies can go a long way toward healing old wounds. There are all kinds of
ways abuse can be recycled--unconscious and conscious assumption of top or
bottom role for purposes of master/healing, [and/or] reenactment of pleasurable
aspects of abuse in new, safe contexts."
This is in line with what I have found amongst straight men who enjoy sex with other men. They are doing the exact same thing as the lesbians addressed by Marny Hall.

I think the blogger comments here speak to how labels are used and only hurt by boxing people in.

64 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am a straight married woman, and I guess I never really thought too much about gay porn, until the other night on a tv show I saw two men kissing, and it turned me on. Since then I've watched it a few times, and thought that I must be the only woman to be turned on by this! Thanks for writing the article, atleast I know that I'm not some weirdo. Not sure that I'm gonna let my husband in on this little secret though! :)

Anonymous said...

I am a heterosexual lady and I love gay male porn. I also like transexual male porn.

Anonymous said...

Yep, I am a lesbian and gay porn is the only porn I watch. I like gay men because they understand the power dynamics. I think all men should take it up the ass. ;

Anonymous said...

I'm 24 yrs old, and didn't realize my fascination w/ gay porn until the intro of Yaoi manga. (Japanese boy on boy stories). I was always aroused by these stories, so I checked out some gay porn to see if the same affect would occur. It did.
However, the very thought of my boyfriend w/ a man distresses me. So even though I enjoy watching guy on guy porn, doesn't mean I want my man to do it..or even know about it. *what to do...?

Anonymous said...

I asked my man about it and he confessed that years ago he did it to please a woman..kinda made me hot and am thinking of asking him for one more go around

Anonymous said...

hello i am an Indian man married to a Japanese woman and we are in East Africa Kenya and i want my wife to watch gay porn as i love men and have had few men and love sucking men but did not know how to tell my japanese wife , however she does love gropu sex porn and she has watched with me alot and i see her getting wett during those movies. I wish men and women would contact me and her to see how it goes, also i wanted her to bring her exboyfriend a muslim boy to our house and have sex with him infront of me as i know she still likes him as when we seem him at the shopping mall she smiles at him and then she will seduce me, how do i make her bring her exboyfriend and make her have sex infront of me with her exboy? my contact yahuu messenger id is
naresh_single
and hers is
keiko_keiko2001
hope some nice women and men will add us and talk with us as i feel its better she gets online info on this too

nachtmann2 said...

I'm glad to know that some women love to watch gay man to man sex. I am bi-curious and one of my biggest fantasies is to be involved in a 3 some with 2 other guys and have a couple women watching and telling us what to do to each other, or for me to be the reciever in a gang bang. I'm laying on my back on a table surrounded by naked guys. Some are taking turns fucking my ass while the others are being jerked off onto my face by the girls who are watching and cheerring me on.

Anonymous said...

I am a bisexual 33 yr old female in a polyamorous 3way relationship. (I have a girlfriend, she has a husband.) He has been my lover off and on over the years.
I *love* gay male porn. It's the only kind I enjoy, for all the reasons listed in this article. Women are too dominated in straight porn, they look like they're faking it; the positions they're in can be painful; it's all about the male cumshot and not the real female orgasm.
I've had several 3somes with two men and loved them. I plan more :)

Anonymous said...

wow, i'm so happy i fount this- i thought i was just weird for being attracted to gay porn!

Anonymous said...

I don't think there's anything weird about being a woman attracted to gay porn. We each have different things that turn us on and excite us. I think our tastes in the persuit of sexual pleasure can be just as varied as what's our favorite color, or our favorite song. How can there be a right, or wrong, or normal in that regard? We like what we like and we shouldn't have to apologize or make excuses for it.

gay porn said...

Many people are turned on by these kind of erotic scenes, may because it is sort of unusual unlike with the man to woman act.

Erin Smith said...

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Anonymous said...

I am a bisexual young girl. I wouldn't say that I love gay male porn but I love watching any storyline that includes two men in a gay relationship. I love even more when I feel attracted to both of them. I spend many hours of my life on the net watching videos and reading fanfics related to this. Is it a new kind of addiction? I don't know... but I have to say that there are many of us :))

laura said...

I have liked gay porn since I can remember, and have not really met any other women who feel the same. I can really only talk about it with my male gay friends. My husband wouldn't be at all into it, which makes me feel a bit guilty, anyone else in the same boat?

Anonymous said...

Im a bisexual male .... Needless to say I love sex with both men and women ... it turns me on to think of straight women who like gay porn ... I think if I ever settle down a partner , she would have to accept that I need sex with different partners ... i suppose i will have too look for a fellow bisexual ... its encouraging that alot of women are accepting of us ....

Anonymous said...

If I found myself looking for another female partner, I would want to find one who is bisexual like me, who also loves gay male porn. It would be so erotic for me to put on shows for her and her miscelaneous female lovers, by sucking other guys cocks or letting other guys fuck me in the ass, while her and her GF for the day watched and encouraged us on, and then they would make love to each other for my entertainment. Afterwards she and I would relive our experiences while making love to each other while our former partners watched or joined in.

Anonymous said...

Straight blk female here...For me it started off as a curiosity of how gay men please each other(an attempt to understand why men are gay) and evolved into educational tips on different ways to touch and please a man i.e oral or just touching (pass on the anal) and ended in me being turned on. The human mind is complex and amazing do not feel weird.

azippergirl said...

i only watch gay porn,at first porn like menatplay (but they started to use men that were to hairy and in my eyes ugly)so i started to watch japanese gay porn
straight porn is boring...all the women/girls i know that watch porn (both straight and gay)only watch gayporn,the men in gayporn does someting men in straight porn dont do,they turn themselfs into objects and they are far more handsome than any men i have ever seen in straight porn,im bs but i dont get turned on by watching not attractive women(in my eyes) have sex with men that are not attractive LOL..most straight men don´t understand how girls can watch gayporn and if i try to explane they still don´t get it

Anonymous said...

OMG im glad i found this site tho coz i thought im not normal for my interest watching gay porn....Btw im straight but i love to see other guy sucking the other guy's dick Lol....To me its just tht gays r more hot n good looking(most of them),especially military gays:D

Anonymous said...

i'm glad i found this. i am a lesbian who loves gay male porn. the men have to be moaning, normally its the bottom guy who moans and gets me going. this is the quickest way for me to find "release". glad to knwo that i'm not alone!

shanna said...

hello i am a straight female, and for the passed 20 of my 36 years ive loved gay porn , however i do equate this to my feelings of being a gay male trapped in a womans body. when i fantasize its almost always about men having sex with each other , last year i bought a strap-on a life like one and when i wore it i felt balanced, im not attracted to women, however i like the thought of my man doing feminine things for me being tender and sensual, but when i watch gay porn i prefer for both men to be masculine and strong ....weird i know lol hahaha luckily ive found a real man who's willing to satisfy my sexual fantasies and allow us to keep it just as fantasies , i dont like to share ... so at 36 years old and 2 marriages later i finally found my sexual soulmate, who lets me be a woman in the streets and a man in the bedroom . and i couldnt be happier. this for a me as a black female couldnt be more wonderful . too bad i had to go all the way to ireland to find mr right . but i can honestly say i am happy now !

Anonymous said...

The author says, "This is in line with what I have found amongst straight men who enjoy sex with other men."

Newsflash straight men don't bang other men. That's not straight! WTH? Am I missing something?

Anonymous said...

I know I'm maybe the 20th person to say this, but I am so glad I found this site! I'm a 25 year old (strait)female in a long term relationsip and I have recently discovered the joys of gay porn. To be honest before tonight I was worried that I may be twisted. It never occured to me that "hello, men watch and love girl on girl action, so why can't women enjoy a little male on male?" I don't see myself watching gay porn, who am I kidding, any porn with my hubby, but this is one secret I wont feel guilty about any longer!

Anonymous said...

jeez, i thought i was the only straight woman who found this arousing. I don't like the feminine dudes- i look for masculine guys to help me fantasize... hahahaa. other porn is boring, female on female is just hilarious and ridiculous to me..

Anonymous said...

I guess I'm considered a bisexual female. I am very attracted to women I have acted on it in the past I just haven't in years. I think its mostly the idea of two guys experimenting the same way I did with another girl. It's exciting, and taboo. I'm turned on by the idea of a threesome with both 2 guys and 2 girls, I thought I was really crazy for thinking this until I saw that movie "the kids are alright" very good unique movie about a lesbian couple who has successfully raised two children. When the girl turns 18 they contact the sperm donor and emotions get complicated. Needless to say there is a lot of gay, lesbian and straight sex scenes....want to confuse your sexuality? Watch that movie :)

Anonymous said...

I guess I'm considered a bisexual female. I am very attracted to women I have acted on it in the past I just haven't in years. I think its mostly the idea of two guys experimenting the same way I did with another girl. It's exciting, and taboo. I'm turned on by the idea of a threesome with both 2 guys and 2 girls, I thought I was really crazy for thinking this until I saw that movie "the kids are alright" very good unique movie about a lesbian couple who has successfully raised two children. When the girl turns 18 they contact the sperm donor and emotions get complicated. Needless to say there is a lot of gay, lesbian and straight sex scenes....want to confuse your sexuality? Watch that movie :)

Anonymous said...

I'm a straight single woman and I really appreciate this article and all the posts! I too thought I was being a bit deviant for watching it(of course that could be the draw). I enjoy gay porn for all the reasons stated in the article, but gay male porn is also instructive as I think I give better blow jobs from watching it!

Anonymous said...

this is so awsome. i can only masterbate to gay porn. my boyfriend would never understand. its so sexy. i love mmf threesomes. i want to be involved in one. im 25 years old and i want to personally watch two guys go at it. how do i find what im looking for?

atomica said...

I can tell you exactly why some women enjoy gay porn:

1. Men in straight porn are just "performing", playing the stud where they just jackhammer the woman repeatedly. Men in gay porn look and act more real

2. Men in gay porn are hotter and more sensual-- they kiss more sensually, grope and move more sensually. They moan and groan and give O faces. They're not just humping silently with their "game face on."

3. In straight porn, there's too much focus on female genitalia-- lots of closeups of penetration, labia, etc. In gay porn, it's men's bodies the entire time.

4. Straight porn is more disgusting than gay porn. If you notice now, a lot of it is focused on spitting, bodily fluids, "cream pies", nasty stuff like that. Gay porn is very clean-- at least in terms of what I've seen so far. I don't see as much disgusting nonsense there as I see in straight porno, where women are swapping fluids and stuff like that. (I'm actually this close to throwing up just thinking about it!!)

Just my thoughts on the whole phenomenon :-)

Anonymous said...

Love gay porn. It grows on you maybe how porn grows on guys. idk but when I brought it up with my friends we joked about it... But dang I have my stash of playgirl & honcho and porn vids (too expensive)so just watching online. Sometimes I cant get outta bed the whole day!! its weird cus I was curious, then tripping out And thought it was funny and a lil gross but after looking at it a couple times I asked myself if it gross why do I keep looking hmm and now its a pleasure of mines. Who wouldve thought? ;) <3 the male body

Anonymous said...

My x-girlfriend used to love watching gay porn. I was very turned on by her being turned on. Gay porn seems so much more real than lame-ass straight porn with the ooh-aah bullshit. Our sex was so much more intense while she was watching it.

Anonymous said...

More on the last entry; gay porn by itself is a bit empty form me; two attractive men going at it doesn't quite do it for me. Women love it though, and koodos for you straight women out there who like it.

Anonymous said...

I am straight woman and I love male gay porn. I think there is so much lust and power and just gets to it and no games. I love to watch hot men, gay or not! I has really spiced my love life up. My husband has no idea, but he knows that I have watched male porn before and he has with me and has gotten turned on as well, but he still prefers female on female or just straight porn. I will take my two men any day!

Anonymous said...

I was always very turned on by the idea of putting on a strap on and fucking a beautiful man's ass. Even when I was starting off having sex I couldn't wait to put my finger up there. When I met my future husband I finally asked if he would let me do him. He agreed to make me happy and found that it really turned him on. He never really thought about having sex with other men until that moment and started to realize that he was attracted the opposite sex, especially the masculine top type. We started watching gay porn together and meeting men to have a threesome with and it has been amazing. It's so fun to be in a committed loving relatiionship for many years where you can explore and share your passion for eachother with sexy like minded people. It's just really hot watching two beautiful manly men suck and caress and tease eachother. Sometimes my husband dresses in lingerie for me and acts very submissive and feminine. It is very sensual and exciting.

AWorldICallKaz said...

Just a few side notes. Arousal in men isn't always shown through erection, therefore, in porn (or real-life sex), the pleasure can be faked in a way that other women may do in another porn film. Also, I'm gay, and I've found some of the most appealing films to me featuring exclusively gay male sex scenes to be very emotional and gentle. But, to each his own.

Lola said...

I have to add my 2 cents since Google got me here... I'm a straight female and I highly enjoy man on man porn. I love the strong manly type! My boyfriend would not be cool if he knew this. Double standard considering men love girl on girl.

Anonymous said...

Women on women sex is attractive to me (I'm a man) because I find it erotic to see women handling eachother with a woman's touch. That knowing gentleness and sensuality. They know what feels good and that makes me think they are really feeling great, seeing their bodies writhe in pleasure.

The reason men are bothered by women watching man on man porn is the power idea. Many women obsess over "power roles", which I think are more in their own minds than in reality. So men are paranoid about finding out their woman is really "one of those" women who are constantly on the watch for being dominated somehow. And *some* of those women tend to think men (or at least the 'evil White man') deserve to be taught a lesson, to be humiliated and even raped so they "know how it feels". I have read such expressions online, so I know this attitude exists.

Not all women who think they are being oppressed think men should be raped or humiliated of course, but ending up with one of those man-hating extremists is a man's worse nightmare. It would be like a woman finding out her husband thinks rape of women is okay and that they deserve it for being so evil to men or something.

Not that that is the reason that most women who watch gay porn have, and I'm sure it's a very small minority of psychopaths... At least in parts of the world that aren't the United States.

Just my two cents.

Anonymous said...

I am definitely in that boat. I usually watch when Hubby is not around which makes it seem even worse.

Anonymous said...

This was actually a reply for Laura. Sorty the keys on this phone are tiny lol

Anonymous said...

I'm a 43 year old heterosexual woman and just now came to terms with the fact that sex between men really turns me on. Wish I had figured this out 20+ years ago, I think I would feel more fulfilled in my life at this point. Now there's not much I can do about it except fantasize. *sigh* Glad I found this sight!

Anonymous said...

I'm a gay guy who likes guy-on-guy porn, wait what?! But it's interesting that there are women that also share this common thing out there...

Anonymous said...

I am a BiMarried man and for the first 24 years of my life I led a gay lifestyle. When I was 10 1/2 y/o I was molested by a 14 y/o neighbor boy and after about 8 weeks I was introduced to his parents who made him molest me in the first place. At 10 I didn't know what he was doing but within about the time I turned 11 y/o I was a full fleged Cum Dump for his BIsexual parents swinger parties. I wish I never would have met him at 10 , but it is too late for that and now I have excepted it and it is who I am. I have a few bi friends who get together about every 2 weeks and put on show's for some of there wives. There wives say they are straight but they get naked and play with themselves and by the end of the night at least 3 or 4 women are eating each other out and kissing. Of course me and the other guy's don't hold back at all, it is the real thing we all cum a few times each and usually on someone's face like mine or in my mouth. But there enough of us men that the action goes on all night long and sometimes until the next afternoon.

Anonymous said...

Sorry, I forgot to mention that my wife and I both enjoy watching Gay porn. And I must admit that I did find real Lesbian porn made by lesbians and the people in the films are real lovers, not just made up porn actors. My wife doesn't enjoy lesbian porn but for some strange reason I love to watch it. Although I get much more turned on watching guy's or Shemales (Transexuals) and guy's having gay sex.
When all of our friends have our sex parties we always have gay porn on every tv in the house.

dani said...

i am a straight 41 yr old male and i was first introduced to women liking gay male sex in 2000 by a colombian woman where i was first enjoyed by another man for her enjoyment and since then every gf i had also enjoyed me being enjoyed by other men and my present wife who i married in 2007 has also enjoyed me being enjoyed by other men and she says it was one of the reasons she married me that we could have multiple male partners in our bed and both enjoy other men together and it is a regular part of our love life

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

I'm a straight 30 year old woman and I love gay man on man porn. Simply because it's hot to watch beautiful muscled men getting off. With straight porn the focus is on the women who don't seem to be enjoying themselves and the men don't show any real enjoyment or emotion. In gay porn the men actually moan and groan and get excited which gets me excited. I consider myself pretty open minded but I would never even consider being with a bisexual man in real life or with a straight man who likes watching gay porn.

Anonymous said...

A few people of posted that some women they've been with that have liked gay porn have been interested in multiple partners. The point of the article imo is that straight women who aren't swingers, participate in threesomes, and aren't with bisexual men are enjoying gay porn. That's what makes it so shocking. Sorry no ones surprised that a woman that's knowingly with a bisexual male and has threesomes with him watches gay porn. I don't mean to offend anyone I just think the point of the article is being missed.

Andrew SecondBass said...

I think it is natural for men to want men in this way. Just as I like fantasizing about wanting women to suck and love in a very gay way! We want what we want and thats healthy and fine. My husband is just as gay as me and we both like enjoying each other's lusts.

Anonymous said...

I'm a lesbian and within the past year discovered my sexual attraction tp gay porn. It's extremely confusing trying to figure out why I have these feelings but thanks for posting this. glad im not the only one.

Anonymous said...

I am a 34 year old married male. I consider my self straight. But, from time to time have the urge to watch gay porn on my own and with my wife. My wife enjoys watching it as well as talking about sexual fantasies with me and other men. I think porn whether it be straight or gay is an fantasy outlet that many people use for sexual release It interesting to read the different comments people usually post. Depending on the site you visit, some people are more open minded than others. In my opinion, many people think that if you watch porn that is not the norm of female and male, something is wrong with you. Or they tend to automatically question your sexual orientation. It is hard for alot of people to believe that a man that is sexually aroused from watching gay porn is really straight. Same as it is weird for some people to believe that a straight woman is sexually arroused to female-female or male-male porn. For me, sex is sex. Whether it be man-woman, woman-woman, or man-man. That is what porn is inteded to do. It is used for fantasy and sexual release. Not to be taken as questioning sexual orientation. And if people would keep an open mind, I would believe they would enjoy sex a lot more.

Anonymous said...

I am shocked, I just recently found out im into gay porn. Im a straight blk female and for fun used to google things like girls do dogs and it was way too gross but the disturbing things men did to one another is right in the middle. I love masculine men who u woulnt guess are gay and they respond to the sex like a woman would. Thats how i release. My ex let me finger his ass a few times and hes really masculine and thugged out. I told him i love gay porn and he wanted me to watch it while he eats me out. I only get aroused if im alone. I feel ashamed and would not want to see it in person or with someone i love. Im still glad to know its not just me just a little disheartened to know based off these comments a lot of ppl that are into it are really freaky. I know homosexuality is wrong and i think thats another part that turns me on. Thats why i do it in privat.

Anonymous said...

I am so glad this artical has come out as up till now i have lived with what i thought was a dirty disgustiong secret for many years. I'm a straight girl, engaged to the most amazing man that i love dearly,i've always loved gay male porn however-i feel like i'm cheating on him with my secret as i know he will never understand it if i told him..i'm so glad there a forums like this where we can be honest and real, when in the outside world sometimes we can't be so open.

Anonymous said...

Okay so I am a straight female, but I love everything about a gay man, the porn , the way they act, dress, everything...does that some how make a connection to me maybe really being into females?..because in all actuality most gay men I see are pretty femine... and its weird because I think women are absolutely beautiful I love everything about a women but would never bring myself to be with one, but a gay man yes!..whats up with that..btw my favor show as of now is Noah's Arc!

Anonymous said...

Ashamed to say Im pretty much addicted to gay porn, two guys jus really gets me going . Im bisexual but I could not see myself actually dating a bisexual or gay guy. I just love to watch although it makes me feel so guilty :(. My last relationship ended because my boyfriend was cheating on me with a guy but this doesn't stop me from watching gay

Anonymous said...

anonymous said.....
im a 23 year old lesbian and i enjoy watching man on man porn i have yet to find out if this is normal but i cant seem to turn away from it. this does things for me that i never thought of. this will be something i dont think ill share with anyone because i still dont think it is normal for me to be so turned on by this given that i love women so much oh well to the grave ill take this.......ps its good to know that im not the only one YAAY GAY PORN

Anonymous said...

Iam 31 y/o white female Iam str8 and since I was 20 y/o. I have been turned on by gay men and gay porn. I would say I enjoy playing with myself while watching gay porn. I have found that the sex is more real and not faked. I love to watch a man give another man a blow job, but what really turns me on is man to man anal sex:):) The one thing I have notice, is most of the men in gay porn are HOT, better bodys and BIGGER cocks. Then what you see in str8 porn. I have also found that the gay men I know are HOT and much nicer to every day people then str8 men.

Anonymous said...

I'm one of those girls, and man on man is the only thing that turns me on, really. Straight sex is soooo boring, and I have no interest in the woman at all.
Seeing that there are entire genres of erotica aimed at women and centered around gay male sex, I think that this is fairly common, and not a weird exception as many think.

Terra said...

Like many of the previous women who posted, I am a straight woman, I am almost 48, and for the last 10 years or so gay porn is the only thing that I find arousing. I have been very conflicted and felt very guilty about this, I thought something was wrong with me. When I watch I find myself fanticizing that I am one of the men. I relate to them, I want to have the passion and emotion during sex that they seem to have. They do seem to be more real. Regular man on woman porn is soooo fake. I feel sick watching the women who do not seem to enjoy the sex. I will not feel guilty over this anymore! Idont know if I will share this secret with anyone yet, though.....
I also love watching shows like True Blood, I would love get between Bill and Eric,,,LOL

toya said...

I'm a 30 yr old straight female and I'm pretty.open with my friends with respect to my gay porn fetish. They all think I'm crazy but who cares lol.

Anonymous said...

I'm a 47 year old bisexual female. I love both girls and guys. I unknowingly started a relationship with a bisexual male who recently told me he liked guys too. I talked to him some more about it. We decided that we are going to have a bisexual threesome soon with one of his close male friends. I am so turned on by the fact some guy will be having sex with him in my presence. I have been watching gay porn to try to get an idea of what to expect. I however cannot stop watching the gay porn. It is such a turn on.I'm hooked and I'm so excited. And yes we practice safe sex.

Anonymous said...

Wow, Im quite young but for a while now ive been watching gay porn. I'm not a lesbian- but I feel as though its just like a male watching lesbian porn!

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Anonymous said...

I get turned on by it too...i remember I stopped watching because I felt weird but couldn't help the aroused feeling it gave