I just wrote an article on Huffington Post about men who have sex with men as it might related to what is being debated about John Travolta.
In the past few weeks there have been numerous speculations that John Travolta might have been sexual with men and therefore might be gay.
Our culture is obsessed with men who have sex with men and quickly label them as bisexual or gay. The gay community becomes angry toward those who are closeting themselves, wanting these public people to come out and show that being gay is OK.
Women call my office frantically after discovering their husbands and boyfriends looking at gay porn or meeting men on Craigslist and understandably worry their husbands may be gay or bisexual. These women care for obvious reasons, because if their man is gay, then the marriage is over in their minds.